Q. I am a fairly shy person, in particular around people I don't really know. I usually let people talk over me. Do you have any advice on how I can get her alone or be included in the conversation? Also, I have trouble thinking on the spot with girls I like because I get flustered. Do you have any topics you would suggest that are fairly safe?
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Focus on getting her alone. You are not ready for group conversation. Ask her for her number or email or whatever and make a date for dinner alone.Once alone there are thousands of topics to discuss. Here are some safe ones:weather, family, pets, childhood, vacations taken, vacations planned or wanted, music, school, friends, special school projects, school activities (clubs, sports, etc), reading, internet, TV, movies, future plans, and anything else that comes up.Good luck!
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